Category Archives: Love & Relating


Ask Sarita – Does True Love Exist?

Question: “How can I find a man who is really ready to go deeper into Tantra with me? All I find out there are men who are into polyamory or one-night stands. It is really frustrating as I believe in true love. Am I under some kind of illusion? Does true love exist or is it just a fairy-tale?”

Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love – Book Review

Solving the Mystery of Attraction by Allan and Barbara Pease

I love this book because it makes the entire biological male female mating dance so easy to understand! It is written in an upbeat and humorous style making it a lot of fun to read.

Relationship with Partner – Ask Sarita

Sarita answers 2 questions this month. One is about what women and man need in relationship from each other. And the second is about the astrological compatibility. 

Solving the Relationship Dilemma

During the past year or so there are certain questions I receive on a regular basis from people all over the world. The question below contains the essence of the collective question on the subject of Polyamory.

The Visible Sign of Love – Osho Quote

When two centers meet, there is love. And love is an alchemical phenomenon

Tantra Transforms everyone who dives into it

If you’ve been thinking about joining Master Lover, my new online course for diving into the Tantra world of pleasure, intimacy and consciousness with yourself, your beloved and the sacred, let me share with you a few insights.

Tantra for Adolescents

I am receiving an ever-increasing number of requests from Parents to offer Tantra teachings to adolescent children, in order to give young people a positive life approach to begin adult life with.

A Life Transforming Festival

I have never before been in a festival, which I felt offered so much power to change the world. This was the Osho Tantra Music and Dance Festival held at Zorba The Buddha in Delhi, India from 17—23 November 2014.

I would like to share the magic of this festival with people far and wide. Perhaps by reading this blog, you will be able to imbibe and savor some of the potent Alchemy of this event. The festival was miraculous in its divine, ecstatic quality.

Poem: The Subject tonight is Love

Hafiz is one of my favourite poets of all time. Here is just one sample of this enlightened Sufi Mystic. His poems are so beautiful to read aloud with friends or a lover.

Ask Sarita : Polarity Imbalance in Relationship

Hi Sarita,

I am in a very beautiful loving relating with my beloved for 4 years. I feel lot of understanding and harmony between us when it comes to Yin for example walking in the nature, meditating together

The Alchemy of Loss and New Beginnings: Sarita’s Blog

Sarita examines the many ways we can experience loss: break-up of a relationship or friendship, death of friend or family member, loss of home or job – and reminds us that, “Each loss we experience, simultaneously plants seeds for the new.”

Fulfilment for lovers: Sarita’s Blog

The promise of deeply fulfilling love is written into every cell of our bodies, each heartbeat and every longing of our mind. We reach out to embrace life as young persons, eager for a caress offering unconditional love.

Ask Sarita: Man’s Gift to Relationship

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers questions on: bringing consciousness to relationship

Tantra Relationship: Sarita’s Blog

There is a saying in the world of Tantra: “Travelling the path of Tantra in love relationship is the fastest path to enlightenment, but it is like walking on a razor’s edge.”

Ask Sarita: Finding Love

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: finding love

Ask Sarita: Sensual Love

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: sensual attraction.

Ask Sarita: Finding Fulfilment In Love

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on how to be fulfilled in relationship.

Love Bomb: Sarita’s Blog

The phenomenon of the soul mate is a timely subject, as at the time of writing, I am facilitating the couples level 1 of the Soul Mate Tantra Training, together with Chintan. We are at the Chateau Bellevue in France.

Ask Sarita: How to Manifest a Soul Mate

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: manifesting the soul mate relationship.

Ask Sarita: Intimacy

Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: how to open to intimacy