Love is omnipresent in the universe. Our essential nature is love. And yet, we forget, we feel lack, we search for it and we mourn when our world appears to embrace hatred, fear and suffering. Kabir, the great mystic poet is reported to have said; “Asking where is love is like the fish in the sea asking ‘Where is the water?’ ”
Category Archives: For Men
Where All The Men Have Gone? – Ask Sarita
Question: “I am a 35-year old woman. For as long as I can remember, I have been dreaming of finding my soul mate. However, my search has proved so far to be futile. There is always something that goes wrong. Either the men I meet are into polyamory or are hooked on some substance, or even worse, are into porn.
Three different questions – Ask Sarita
Question 1: “I am considering having a vasectomy. I am 46 years old and – although it looks young for such an important operation – I have the firm conviction that having children is not for me. I really do not wish it in my life. I cherish freedom to the max. And I am very happy with all the lovely moments with my nieces and the children in my family and of my friends.
Sarita’s Blog – Questions and Answers on a Tantra Lifestyle
I receive so many questions on how to live a Tantra Lifestyle that I decided to devote this month’s newsletter to the subject. As we are all human, the question that one person will ask will be relevant to many people. Perhaps you will find the answer to your burning question here, or perhaps you will find answers to questions you didn’t even know you had till you read these answers.
Sarita’s Blog – Women’s Work and Men’s Work
Tantra: Women’s Work and Men’s Work with contributions also from Durga and Anahata
What a serendipitous journey it is to embark on the path of Tantra and to discover the secrets of women’s initiation or men’s initiation!
Ask Sarita – the Desire to Please Others and Female Genital Release
Question No.1
“I carry guilt that I do not meet the expectations of those around me. I want to act as I wish. As long as I remember, I never wanted to cause any trouble to anybody – parents, friends, colleagues, etc. Now, as I grow and develop on the Tantra path, I can feel that my decisions and my actions cause problems for others.
Sarita’s Blog – Tantra, Sacred Sexuality and Relationship
The dramas, traumas and ecstasies about love, sex and orgasm have filled the pages of countless books, sparked reams of poetry and an infinite number of songs. Film plots are based mainly on these subjects and we find flimsily clad women adorning the covers of magazines.
Sensorial Awakening
One of the beautiful songs, created by the Baul Mystics, of Bengal India, says:
“All of us in different ways
Think of God
Beyond senses and feelings
And yet it is only
In the essence of loving
That God is found”
Tantra Transforms everyone who dives into it
If you’ve been thinking about joining Master Lover, my new online course for diving into the Tantra world of pleasure, intimacy and consciousness with yourself, your beloved and the sacred, let me share with you a few insights.
Tantra Man Training Feedback
The Tantra Man Training is a comprehensive, experiential journey into masculinity. Below is some feedback from recent participants and a very appreciative partner!
Ask Sarita: How can I last longer in sex?
Ask Sarita Q) “How can I last longer in sex?”
A) I receive dozens of questions from men on this subject. This means you are not alone in your query. In fact this issue is chronic and a world wide problem.
Ayurveda: Art of Being
During the past week, I have received the news that 4 women who I know very well have been diagnosed with breast cancer. In honour of them, and also to nurture the possibility of holistic healing for anyone who has cancer or knows someone with cancer,
I recommend this brilliant documentary on Ayurveda, the natural healing method from India that is thousands of years old and as relevant today as it was then.
Meditation of the Month: Do you want to be Happy?
“Good Morning; Do You Want To Be Happy Or Miserable Today?”
This is a meditation described by Osho. He tells the story of a great Sufi Master who was on his deathbed.
His disciples asked the Master to tell them his secret of why he was always happy. They had never seen him sad! He recounted that he practiced this technique every day:
Ask Sarita: Man Self Pleasuring
Spiritual Seeker: I came across your website. I’m a 49 year old male. I am just getting into Tantra. I just purchased the book you recommended, “Divine Sexuality”. I had a few questions I was hoping you might be able to answer for me:
Lingam, Pillar of Light: Sarita’s Blog
“Behold the Shiva Lingam, beautiful as molten gold, firm as the Himalayan Mountain, tender as a folded leaf, life-giving like the solar orb, behold the charm of his sparkling jewels!”
In Profile: The Return of the Phallus
Bruce Lyon delivers a powerhouse of a blog about the loss of phallus – the living word of life – which both men and women need to embrace to move our evolution forward. He argues that we need to welcome back the feminine and the masculine in their exalted form to create the heaven on earth we all know is possible.
Yoni Revolution: Sarita’s Blog
Sarita offers an in-depth explaination of how the Yoni – the female genitals – works on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.
Ask Sarita: Pleasure Beyond Porn
Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: pleasure beyond porn.
Ask Sarita: Premature Ejaculation
Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: premature ejaculation
Ask Sarita: Lingam Size
Sarita loves to answer your questions, so if there’s something you’d like her advice on, please email her and let her know if you are happy for it to be published (you can remain anonymous). Here she answers a question on: does size matter?
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